Fantasy is a form of mechanism (coping mechanism) by escaping the fact or condition that may not happen in the real world into the world that allows such conditions materialize.
Types of sexual fantasies are very diverse, there is fantasize having sex with former boyfriend and idol, or having sex in public places. However, it turns out quite a lot of women that her libido awakened every time imagining himself forced sex or rape.
Having sex with coercion, according to a study in 2009, is a kind of fantasy that is often done. Other studies have shown, a third of women admitted to imagine a man forced himself to make love can make her passion burn. Why?
Dr. Hernando Chaves, clinical sexologist from California, United States, say, by imagining yourself being raped, they really want to feel under the domination of man or forced to submit. Others do it because I wanted to feel a man crush on him and wanted to make love with him.
Experts also mentioned, there are actually psychological reasons behind sexual fantasy is, namely responding to past trauma.
"Basically, there are no women who want to be raped in the real world. Rape is a non-sexual experiences and forms of violence," said Chavez.
Therefore, according to Chaves, raped women who fantasize themselves actually want to feel that he was under duress or sadomasochistic sexual experience but it is safe because it is only in the mind.
Sexual fantasies involving men is also often preferred or partner so that they can control their own limitations and be more "real" picture it. Some women keep their own fantasy, but there are also trying to make it happen with a partner.
"It should be remembered that do directly with very different fantasies. In addition, not all men can understand the fantasy," he said.
Sources: AskMen
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