If Si He Can not Achieve Orgasm

Compared with men, women require a lot of prerequisites to be able to reach orgasm. To get an orgasm, it is necessary to understand how the body react to sexual stimuli and find out what became of pleasure for him. 


Most women, even up to two thirds, require stimulation in the clitoris to achieve orgasm. However, if the spouse is trying to stimulate the clitoris directly, either before, during or after intercourse, but does not also have an orgasm, then he is considered impaired orgasm or in medical language is called anorgasmia. 


When you make a woman's sexual disorder depressed, then the assistance should be sought. Sexual disorder is a common problem, so do not be ashamed. Look for doctors who study sexual problems and ask questions as an effort to seek help. 


If the doctor states that experienced an orgasm disorder does not require drug therapy or psychological, then it is likely that an orgasm disorders associated with sexual arousal disorder. 
In some cases disorders of orgasm, a woman could achieve orgasm, but it takes a long time to achieve it. Here are some ways you can do to guide women to reach the top: 


1. Relax 
You may have heard, couples who want children can actually get pregnant after being sincere and adopt children. The same principle can be applied here. Do not set a target, just enjoy an intimate relationship with a partner who do not even reach the top. Free yourself from stress so you can relax and enjoy all the stimulation provided. 


2. Create variations 
Einstein once said, the definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results. Therefore, if the sex positions that you do not give results, then stop and do other variations. Perhaps the missionary position is less able to give full stimulation, or perhaps make love in the living room will give a higher desire. No need to be afraid to try sex toys as a variation. 


3. Change mindset 
You need to know that the biggest sex organ is the brain. If what you think about sex is how you reach orgasm difficult or the couple can not understand your wishes, then it can become obstacles in achieving pleasure. Sex will become an activity performed by forced. Change your negative thought patterns. 


4. Share 
Not without reason if the husband or wife is called as a couple. When you play tennis or racquetball, you certainly would not let her partner just stood quietly on the sidelines. The same applies in intimate relationships. You and your partner must work together to make everything smooth. It also means you must have good communication to express what the preferred partner in terms of enjoyment. 


5. Expand the definition of 
The definition of great sex is not just a matter of whether or not achieved orgasm. Great sex is to your liking. Again, the biggest sex organ is your brain. If you are not enjoying it, then it's time to do the reprogramming. Sex is fun, a chance for you and your partner making love, devoted love. 
  
Sources: FoxNews