The importance of "Loveplay" Before Sex

Sexual activity before intercourse is usually called foreplay. However, most experts in the field of sex mentioned that the term is not precise, because it does not mean anything other than "warming". Of course warming up to sex.


The word foreplay giving great pressure on men to have a penis that is able bereksi and tends to lead us to think that sex is just sex.
Similarly, delivered the opinion of Joel D. Block, Ph.D., in his book Secrets of Better Sex. According to Joel, the right term for it is loveplay.


Furthermore, Joel reveals that usually a period called the foreplay is considered as a step that must be done by a man against his female partner to be ready to have sex because men are considered always ready.
In fact, man, especially the elderly, desperately need and want loveplay before or during sex. As a preparation for the actual intercourse, foreplay will be better able to enhance sexual arousal when executed properly.


Here are five clues to foreplay according to Joel. D. Block:
1. Remember that sex begins in the brain. Start thinking about the times when having sex and tell your mind briefly, preferably through an image to a spouse if it can be. Could also with other symbols, such as sending a rose to her office.
2. Note the Romanesque detail. Prepare a slightly romantic atmosphere. Make sure the room is warm enough, the right lighting, the room smells fragrant, underwear that stimulates, and so on.
3. Slowly. Begin with a kiss (do not jump on the sexual organs).
4. Give an orgasm. Many women do not experience orgasm during intercourse. Some women who experience orgasm several times more likely to get a second or third orgasm during sexual intercourse if they've been there.
5. Consider other erotic zones. There are many erotic zones such as nipples, scrotum (in men), or other places like the ears, neck, and so on. @ Abd