Sunday, July 31, 2011

Sex, Slow Makin Makin Okay!

Age should not a barrier for a person to enjoy sexual akitivitas a comfortable and satisfying. In fact, according to experts sexology, increasing age, a person's sex life should be increasingly good and fun.
The study, published in the journal Psychological Science November 2008, for example, proving that someone marital satisfaction and happiness will increase as children begin to release because of its independence. 


The sex therapist also agreed that the release of children from the "nest" husband and wife tend to make more free to enjoy quality time, including in terms of sex.
Sex therapist David Schnarch never reveal the difference between genital sexual prime and prime one. For most people, the prime genital appear in adolescence and the age of 20 when the body is in the best condition. However, at this time the mind has not been well developed sexually.


Schnarch says that a person's sexual prime is actually far from what is imagined by many as the days of sexual "heavy and hot", such as school age. With increasing age, a person would benefit from self-acceptance, knowing what she likes and do not be afraid to ask.


Famous sex counselor from the New York Times, Ian Kerner, argues, aging will not actually affect a person's sex, not just as an unhealthy habit that will lead to losses after a few years. Instead of unhealthy lifestyles such as too much stress, lack of sleep, poor diet, supine exercise, not taking care of themselves, and relationships with other people who will ruin your sex life.
Leaving the quality of health continues to deteriorate, according to Kerner, is a major cause of sexual problems. Therefore, do not be surprised if a lot of healthy people in their 50s and 60s are more sexually active than those who were younger.


One of the important things that distinguish the young and old in terms of sex, according to Kerner, is sex always slows down with age. For example, a young woman can experience vaginal in just a few seconds, but for older women to take few minutes to experience perlendiran.
"The same applies to men in terms of erection. It is important for couples to realize that it takes longer to get an erection or perlendiran so it does not mean that couples do not need to be aroused," said Kerner.


In fact, slow it bring any good for your sex life. When signs of sexual arousal does not appear as fast than usual, it gave an opportunity for longer to the couple to play and mingle with each other in bed. Behavior that we usually do during foreplay can be a major activity during sex and give couples the opportunity to re-explore each other sexually.
When men experience aging, testosterone levels will decline, while the hormone estrogen to rise. This means that many elderly men who could be more focused and appreciate the softness of sex.


For example, husbands who are curious or have never tried erotic massage or other techniques can now try and introduce it to their partner. In principle, enjoy what is beneficial with age. The young man did have a stronger erection, but tends to have more senior men better control. You and your partner getting familiar with each other's bodies, have perfect technique, and no longer feel inhibited as in the past!
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