Enjoying Sex It's like Eating

What is the difference between enjoying food and sex? Enjoying food can be alone, that sex alone is less enjoyable. The equation? Each of these three stages need to be perfect, the appetizers, main course and dessert at dinner, or foreplay, intercourse, and afterplay during sex.


Somehow, most people do not plan to eat a full set of menus. Be forewarned there are snacks salty-sour-savory can be tempting, then eat the main meal full of nutrition, and end with sweet desserts. Maybe eating habits to the point, straight to the main menu, it also illustrates how most people have sex: sex relationships directly into! And, after sleeping soundly.


"Like the full dish set menu which consists of three stages, a satisfying sex can be achieved if includes three stages: foreplay, intercourse, and afterplay," said Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, SpAnd, Professor and Chairman of the Center for the Study of Andrology and Seksologi Faculty Medicine, Udayana University, Bali.


Begin with foreplay
Foreplay is like appetizers or entrees, aka feed throat while eating is very important to appetizing. "Pain is the primary, but the appearance should be," said Rudy Choirudin, expert cook, about serving appetizers.


Cleanse the body until fragrant, then come up with clothes that give the impression of sexy, it's important to do. "Do not forget to cast praise and express words of affection to your partner," said Dra Zoya D Jusung, MPsi.
According to the lecturer at the Faculty of Psychology UI steeped in sexology, when compared with intimate communication skills have sex until somersaults, turns intimate communication was more important emotionally.


Of course after that it should be a physical touch, a caress, kiss, hug, and so forth, which increases the incentives for self or spouse. According to Prof. Wimpie, "No foreplay, erection of the penis may not be optimal, whereas in women lubrication does not occur."
Without lubrication (wet vagina), painful sexual intercourse took place, like someone being raped. While if the penis is not erect optimal, it is definitely a woman will be very disappointed.


Time to enjoy intercourse
To be able to enjoy a satisfying sexual relationship, it takes the perfect penis erection. "The failure of orgasm in women, among others, due to the lack of violent male penis. The cause of the lack of violence, among other penis-related vascular diseases, eg diabetes mellitus, "said Prof. Wimpie.
"Then to the main menu, in addition to vegetables and meat, there should be a carbohydrate'll be able to 'kick'," said Rudy.
To find out if his erection really able to kick, he can test his own penis using the scores made by Pfizer following.


Does penis enlarged but not hard, like a tape? Or penis erection hard but not hard enough for penetration, such as boiled banana peel? Probably pretty hard to penetrate but not all that hard, like a sausage? The hope penis such as cucumbers, hard wholly and fully strained.


Various sex position can be tried as long as you and your partner both feel comfortable and can enjoy. Men do not have the above. Men and women can take turns at the top, below, in front, behind, and so on.
Finish with afterplay


If ejaculation has occurred, orgasm can be achieved equally, do not rush to turn over and snore. Dra advice Zoya, use that time to talk with a partner, for example, reveals which part was so good, as when you are happy to see the couple, and so on.


This is important because sexual satisfaction is not just an orgasm. "In psychology, if only to do with that genital pleasure, if it is the satisfaction of emotional satisfaction," said Zoya Dra.


When Rudy says, "To cover there should be a sense of sweet things, let the tongue satisfied and unforgettable." @ Widya Saraswati