Pain during intercourse is known in medical terms as dyspareunia. These complaints such as burning, sharp or as menstrual cramps.
Although this condition can occur in men, but most women who experience this. Complaints of pain in women during intercourse is located in the area around the vagina, clitoris and labia (vaginal lips)
Conditions pain during sex is certainly uncomfortable for the woman.
Quality sex so annoyed because she can not enjoy sex much less achieve orgasm. So many patients who complain of this as something that interferes with their emotional and of course the relationship of husband and wife.
Diagnosis of Dyspareunia
* The patient said that pain during sex
* This happens not because of lack of vaginal lubrication or due to vaginismus (vaginal tension is too tight and making it difficult to penetrate)
* This is not caused by the use of substances and drugs and also not due to a general medical condition
* Making the sufferer becomes uncomfortable and impaired interpersonal with spouse
Psychological Basis
Sex-related pain conditions can be caused by psychological factors and most of it is what happened. Conditions complained of excessive pain may be caused by factors other than physical, but it is strongly influenced by the subjectivity of psychological conditions, especially regarding pain.
Conditions pain during intercourse can also be attributed to factors in the past trauma. Women who had experienced pain during sex may develop this condition again in the current period.
Another thing is a cognitive learning from people who are meaningful to her. If there are people who are meaningful to the patient tells about his illness to have sex, then this woman will keep this memory in the subconscious and unconsciously aroused when there is a real experience relate to this. This usually occurs in women who have a personality easily influenced others.
Besides the internal conflict with a partner, feelings of hurt and psychological trauma can cause this disorder. Patients who experience pain during intercourse disorder sometimes recounts the less well with the husband. The existence of depressive disorders can also cause this condition so that the handling of the psychological aspect to note
How Treating
Therapy for these cases requires the cooperation partner. Clear explanations to their partners about sexual and reproductive organ function will open new horizons for the couple, especially the women who experienced dyspareunia. It also described the psychological and physiological factors that are related to sexual relations.
Spouse must also be given tips about lovemaking techniques are safe and comfortable for both. Relaxation techniques are also often used as well as meditation to create a comfortable pair and relax the pelvic muscles and vagina.
Preventing Dyspareunia
* Good hygiene is maintained
* Perform good foreplay and stimulation to ensure good lubrication
* If you want to use a lubricant, buy the basic ingredient is water rather than oil because it may irritate.
* Use comfortable clothes and from materials that do not irritate the skin
Hopefully this overview will help you identify and overcome the interference pain during sex.
Dr. Andri SpKJ, Psychiatrist with a specialty in the field of Psychosomatic and Liaison Psychiatry. Responsible Omni Psychosomatic Clinic, Alam Sutera, Tangerang.
Sources: Kompasiana
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