According to the author of the health-themed books, Lianny Hendrata, sex is something sacred because it not only brings two genitals, but also unites body, mind and soul. "Sex and love are two different things. However, these two can unite a sacred thing if an inner unity of husband and wife. If only one who hopes to give sex to get love, others will have sex, but not necessarily want to give his love sincere, "said Lianny, as quoted in the essay book entitled The Power of Sex.
Lianny revealing, intimate relationship that is based in a marriage (sacred) can provide many health benefits for a spouse. With sex, one can solve problems of stress because the muscles to become relaxed simulated body and the mind becomes calm.
In fact, continued Lianny activity, body movements when having sex can burn calories a lot so it could maintain body weight. According to him, many studies have shown that healthy sex is performed with a happy feeling will provide benefits for mental health.
Because sex is not just a physical activity that is done carelessly or with anyone willing. "However, do sex acts as a form of inner energy unification with the couple, and convert that energy as a source of strength that will renew every cell in our bodies," he explained in a new book that launched it.
Lianny also provides an illustration of how sex is also a force that can actually damage and destroy a person, if done carelessly. For example, in the case of couples who are dating.
According to him, someone who sincerely loves her partner would not have been asked to conduct an "relationship" that is not supposed to do.
"If we ask a girlfriend as a token of his love sex whether it will you give? Now, if we love our girlfriends, he's just not going to ruin our honor. So if he's confused between sex and love, meaning it's still in love lust," he said at the launch Lianny book some time ago.
In young children who are not married, sex can become a force to destroy life, if done carelessly. "Nowadays a lot of people get married at the time of love lust. So it was not true love," he said.
Lianny explained, how sex is no longer to be something sacred among teenagers, especially abroad. No wonder if the phenomenon of premarital sex cause a range of negative impacts, among which are murder, abortion, and suicide.
In a study of 4,000 young people conducted by experts at the University of LOA in the United States and published the Journal of Marriage & Family is known that on average they had had premarital sex. "The sacredness of the act of sex is not there. So it is considered normal," he added.
As in Indonesia, Lianny view that sex is considered a social gathering. Thus, a lie to say sexual problems in Indonesia is still considered a taboo. "Because the undercurrent was very unusual," he said.
Lianny hope the information conveyed through the book The Power of Sex can provide insight, especially to young people that sex is something sacred and should not be done haphazardly.
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