Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Post-Delivery Dim passion, it normal?

The birth of a new baby is not only happy but also exhausting. No wonder that 20 percent of new mothers maternity claims sexual arousal is reduced and 21 percent were even losing the desire for romance.


There are several factors that could cause the ruination of this sexual arousal. The first is a sense of weariness after a day of baby care. Especially in the first weeks of a baby. At this time the baby usually requires more attention from parents, not to mention if the mother had to stay up for feeding or holding a baby.


These conditions not only physically exhausting but also psychologically. When you have time for myself, who first want to do is to rest, instead of making out with her husband.


The second factor is the condition of the body that is still in the stage of recovery after childbirth. The pain of stitches around the vagina or around the seam section is also often a prohibitive factor for women to have sex.


Most women are also worried about the pain and discomfort that may be experienced during first intercourse after childbirth. Another prohibitive factor is felt less attractive due to their anatomy has not been restored. This feeling has a huge impact because it can cause discomfort in the presence of her husband.


Another factor is anxiety. For example concerned will become pregnant again before the desired time, fear of milk production will be disrupted, as well as various other anxiety that can interfere with libido and mood for sex.


The good news is, this decline is temporary passion. Needed support and understanding on the condition of the mother's partner to return back to the warmth of the marital relationship. Cooperation between husband and wife in caring for infants can also improve physical and emotional bond.


sources:
babycenter

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