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Many men often difficult to understand or translate what women want during sex. The reason, the Eve itself was indeed difficult to express and convey what they really want and feel during lovemaking.


According to new research by experts from Johns Hopkins University, women are often difficult to expose what they feel in bed. In fact, they also have problems in understanding the feelings of sexuality.


Nevertheless, this fact does not mean the end for men. The experts assured, every man can still establish good communication to achieve mutual satisfaction with how to translate exactly what is disclosed a woman in bed.
Sexuality expert who is also professor of the University of Washington, Pepper Schwartz, PhD, said, men are sometimes mistakenly interpret what is disclosed her partner during intercourse. It can actually be more difficult for couples to achieve satisfaction.


One phrase that is often misunderstood is when women say "Do not Stop". The phrase was translated men with increased speed and strength, because he considered the couple really enjoying. In fact, the action can actually interfere with comfort and even alienate the couple from the orgasm.


"When women say, 'Do not stop,' it actually means, 'Do not change anything you are doing,'" said Pepper who is also a consultant on perfectmatch.com.
The location of the point of satisfaction of women, says Schwartz, is very specific. "Thus, changing the position of even just a little touch-it-can damage and interfere with orgasm," he said.


It is also often mistakenly translated the expression. Some women will indeed be an expression of a great time to reach orgasm, but some are just holding my breath and then a pause before reaching orgasm.
"Many men think, her partner did not enjoy," said Schwartz. "But, if you change what you do, he could lose the opportunity to orgasm," he said.
According to Schwartz, communication is the key to a good relationship. So, if you continue to have problems in understanding and translating what is desired partner, talk openly. Source:kompas